Frivolous Fixations

Did anyone else understand the Biggest Metaphor of the Movie? TABU - The beautiful and Deadly KASHMIR which is burning itself and is confused who to side on with as it loves everyone equally. HILAAL Meer - The country which neglected and devalued her and now considers her treacherous and responsible for all wrong befalling it. Legally deserving her but morally not. KHURRAM - the opportunist which gained control over her and value her more than life but has sacrificed ethics in order to achieve her. Maybe Legally Deserving her but morally not. HAIDER - Her son who wants her badly enough to destroy everything around him as well as inside him. His Lust knows no bounds. Not deserving her Legally or Morally. Kudos Vishaal Bhardwaj - Your art is Exquisite!

When I was a teenager, I read a book by Sidney sheldon and told my cousin brother- “Sidney sheldon is an awful writer” My brother didn’t argue with me he said- Which book did you read? when I told him the name, –Bloodline he said its one of the worst and told me to read “Master of the game” 20 years later, Sidney Sheldon is my favorite author and I am grateful to my bro for letting me know my choice of book was not correct to judge the writer. I would have missed reading the some of the best thriller+mystery novels  had I not pushed my horizons.   So I asked all my friends on FB and here is the list of all the best Rom-Coms of all time  and 3 imp points- 1)Most are hits and  allare classics- widely liked by public 2) I didn’t include any Meg ryan’s movies though hers are the best (You’ve got mail, When Harry Met Sally) 3) None of these have the cliched ending (In some the hero heroine do Not end up together) 4) Main in Manhattan ...

My Lovely son Arzeb was born on 28th November 2013,  Thursday - the Thanksgiving day. Saving his milestones on my blog - so I can never forget how happy he made me feel. Happy Reading! First haircut date:  01/08/2014     age:  5 weeks old Arzeb's Father shaved off hair from his head  after almost 40 days of his birth. Simple ceremony at home- along with Siwayaan cooked by me and distributed to friends. Slept through the night date:  02/15/2014     age:  2 months old: Week 3 So Arzeb slept 7 hours non - stop last night!!! LIFE U are BEAUTIFUL! First time rolling over date:  03/17/2014     age:  3 months old: Week 3 Made Arzeb Lie down on his back a bit away from the laptop and went to get his milk bottle-  Came back to see he had rolled over and was lying on his  stomach next to the laptop looking at its screen! It was the FIR...

My little sister is getting married. Yayyyyyyyy. A joyous occassion for me .. but not for all. I keep remembering what my mom told me about her wedding- how people hated them; didn't want to meet her for years when she  being a Shia married a Sunni. But by the time we were in our tweens; almost both sides of the family had accepted my parent's marriage. Recently when my Shia  maternal cousin brother married  my Sunni paternal cousin sister- there was hardy any displeasure and it all went as though anything was hardly out of place. So now I feel my parents were ahead of the time- hence same for my sister. In this world, where its so hard to find a soul- mate; isn't it harder  to find someone of your own religion, matching castes or even social backgrounds? What's the big deal if you marry someone out side the specifications. Why are others so intimidated by your decision? If these same people have to make this decision for their children, they ...